Goddess Training
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What is Goddess Training?
Goddess training is the process of fully empowering women and their sexual energy in the deepest possible way. It is for any woman, of any age, any body shape, and any lifestyle. It encompasses every aspect of femininity, all the weaknesses, all the strengths, all the dark, all the light, and balances them all in order to become a fully grounded and empowered woman of deep integrity. It is a training that imparts a deep understanding of yourself, how you interact with others, and the world in general. I also welcome working with men or any orientation who wishes to explore the Goddess inside of themselves. For a detailed description of what it involves see the section What things will I learn? below.
Masculinity Training
What is masculinity Training?
Masculinity training is the process of fully empowering men and their sexual energy in the deepest possible way. It is for any man, of any age, any body shape, and any lifestyle. It encompasses every aspect of masculinity, all the weaknesses, all the strengths, all the dark, all the light, and balances them all in order to become a fully grounded and empowered man of deep integrity. It is a training that imparts a deep understanding of yourself, how you interact with others, and the world in general. I also welcome working with women or any orientation who wish to explore the male God inside of themselves. For a detailed description of what it involves see the section What things will I learn? below.
Why would I want Goddess or Masculinity training?
An understanding of female and male energy, sex, and relationship is fundamental to our personal life and wellbeing, it is at the heart of our psychology, and it's influences extend to many other areas outside of this, indeed it is my view that it is our most primary and greatest influence in all of life. So much of our life is built around sex, sexual energy, and relationships, if we have great sex and relationships, life generally feels and works much better, as the underlying forces of sex extend into all relationships, not just our romantic and sexual ones. An example of how broad the effects of sex are, is in the way it underpins the power dynamics that are part of any hierarchy of people; such as the hierarchies you get at work, in institutions, or in a family. Therefore a full understanding of this area is beneficial and empowering for every aspect of our life, as it is ubiquitous and influential throughout all of life.
This explains why anyone would want Goddess or masculinity training; because they wish to empower every area in their life in the deepest way possible, through a full understanding of their female and male sexual power, and how female and male energy interact and drive all the relationships between everyone. I regard this understanding to be essential knowledge that everyone should have, as without it how can we understand ourselves, our power, and all our relationships with others, indeed I believe it should be extensively taught in schools along with many other social studies to equip children for the challenges of adult life.
The need for this knowledge is increased by the complexity of the modern world, as the much simpler roles of the sexes in the past, are now long gone. There are many conflicting expectations and questions regarding the sexes and their roles. For example women may ask questions such as: if I am a mum do I have to work as well, it is ok to dress sexy when young, but is it ok when you are older, I am dominant at work, but should I be submissive at home, should I be dieting? Similarly for men there are many conflicting expectations they can feel pressurised to follow, which quite often centre around how dominant or submissive they should be. This leads to a common problem in relationships, one I have seen many times, where mutual sexual attraction and respect is lost, something that is highly detrimental to the quality of the relationship and the lives of the couple. For LBGTQ things can reach a whole new level of complexity where a clear sexual identity becomes difficult to achieve. These type of questions can lead to great confusion on the part of people about who they are and how to express themselves, especially in their romantic and sexual relationships. Goddess and Masculinity training is here to help you cut through all the confusion, to become clear on who you really are as a sexual human being, and connect in a balanced way with your greatest power.
What things will I learn?
Goddess and Masculinity training focuses in upon what it means to be the powerful sexual being you are, it requires strength, humility, and bravery to go on this journey, and there are a number of key things you need to learn in order to do this:
Understanding the characteristics of male and female energy.
It starts with a full understanding of male and female energy, we are all a combination of these energies. Generally, although not always, women have far more female energy, and far less male energy, the opposite is true for men. I will teach you how to understand all aspects of both energies, and how to express them according to what you feel, and what role you wish to act out. For example if you are a powerful career woman who is used to being dominant, I can help you understand how to surrender to your submissive female energy in a way where you still feel safe and in control, or if you are a full time nurturing mother, I can help you balance this with more assertive behaviour. Similarly if you are a dominant man you will be used to being dominant at work, but how should you be at home with your partner, do you feel equally as confident in this environment? Most of all we will look at all the sexual expressions of female and male energy, as these are at the roots of all human behaviour.
How male and female energy interact and produce intense attraction and passion.
Without sexual attraction, relationships can become very mundane, so attraction is essential for a fulfilling and vibrant life. You will become much more aware of the hidden subconscious sexual forces that are driving you in so much of your life, and I will give you insight into those that drive men and women. Once you have understood both energies fully, I will teach you how they interact, how they can produce intense attraction and passion under specific circumstances, how woman can become irresistible to men, and how men can become irresistible to women, these are the foundations of vibrant fulfilling relationships and life.
Understanding how relationships really work, the deeper purpose of them, and why they don't always meet our expectations.
Our up brining and society at large tends to teach us a fairy tale; that we meet our dream partner, fall in love, and live happily in harmony with each other, ever after. This is wonderful if happens, but it rarely does, and most peoples lives are very different from this ideal, indeed most of us will experience great challenge in our relationships, and in the ending of them. Why does this happen, how do we deal with these challenges? You will understand exactly the purpose of your relationships, and how to change the challenge of them, from something that is unwanted, into your greatest strength.
Understanding that whatever age, body shape, or status, you have, you are always
sexually powerful.
Being a powerful attractive man is not fundamentally about having money, muscles, or status. It is true that these are strong attractors for women, but there is a deeper understanding as to what truly attracts women. Similarly being a young beautiful women is definitely attractive to many men, however it is not the only way, and there are much deeper ways women are attractive to men. In giving you the full understanding of attraction, you will learn precisely how you, no matter what your physical appearance, wealth or status, are a deeply powerful and attractive person; ultimately you will learn that believing in yourself is the key to activating this truth.
Express fully the inner and outer God & Goddess.
Every aspect of who you are is explored; we will look at who you really are on the inside and how to fully express this; equally we will look at how you project this in the outer sense to, and this involves becoming conscious of the way you dress, and how you project who you are to the world. It takes bravery to go on this journey, as all aspects of your self expression will be brought into alignment with the powerful sexual person you wish to be.
Your infinite sexual power - The Light and Dark aspects of sex.
It takes great understanding to hold the extraordinary sexual power that all people have. This understanding does not follow the rules of social conservatism, political correctness, or the limits society says we should have. It follows the rules of the deepest parts of our psychology. Each and every aspect of human psychology has both a dark and a light aspects. This is most visible with our sexuality, everyone therefore will have dark sexual desire of some form, as well as light or vanilla sexual desires. In order to fully understand yourself, and how you are motivated in your life, and how your relationships work, you will have to understand and learn how to express these dark aspects as much as the light. I will help you dig down deeper into yourself to discover and understand the purpose and divinity of every aspect of what you are, this is the key to unlocking your greatest power.
Channelling Goddesses and Tantra.
For those who are spiritually orientated, and wish to fully integrate their spirituality with their sexual energy, I can show you how to open up your consciousness to God & Goddess energies, and channel them through your body. This actually happens quite naturally during many of our life activities, the sexual orgasm being the most common and powerful one. It is usually quite subtle and therefore unrecognised, however it can be far more intense, become a common occurrence, and also on rare occasions I have found it to become completely extreme and super natural with a number of lovers. I can show you how to enhance this natural ability, ground it, and how to tap into the sometimes startling experiences and powers it can produce. Goddess and Masculinity training can be done in practical and non spiritual way, however if you so wish, I can help you integrate spirituality into your sexual practice, and every aspect of your life.
Holding your power with responsibility.
A fully empowered God or Goddess is highly influential, especially to the opposite sex, who will find them irresistible, and quite often intoxicating. The opportunities to abuse this power are endless, and can start in seemingly innocent ways which can grow into dysfunctional lifestyles for everyone. Women have a subconscious instinct to test men, which is rarely understood by them, and because of this it often leads to difficulty in relationships, and powerful men can fall into using their power to dictate over others. With your power must come equal measures of humility and responsibility, if it is to be balanced, serve you, and others.
Using the deeper knowledge you have gained to enrich every aspect of your life.
Goddess and Masculinity training will equip you with a far greater awareness and understanding of yourself, others, and how everyone interacts with each other. You will learn how to hold your integrity and power in all your relationships, not just your romantic/sexual ones. You will understand how to become fully aware of and communicate clearly your feelings, desires, purpose and boundaries to all people, so they are left feeling clear about who you are and what you want. Equally you will learn how to listen to others, and you will be more balanced in all your feelings and behaviour. This promotes the most fulfilling life and relationships for you, and for everyone you interact with, you have become the powerful sexual being you are!
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The challenge of Goddess & Masculinity training.
Goddess & Masculinity training will present many challenges; it requires you to face, overcome, and ultimately transform, your pain, fears, and limiting belief systems into your greatest strengths. It takes determination, humility, and bravery to go on this journey, and in a sense it is the fullest and deepest form of life training for people, as it takes us to the heart of what we are as human beings.
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How I became a Goddess & Masculinity trainer?
From my late teens, I have always wanted to empower all people. Men and women, or I should say male and female energy, are fundamentally different, and the way they interact is the key motivator that drives all of life. As I became older and engaged in romantic relationships, I realised that a deep understanding of this was essential for empowering people in general, and in my view is a crucial and basic life knowledge that we should all have. For these reasons I created work shops specifically designed to empower men and women, they taught women how to be Goddesses, and men how to be masculine Gods, and then how they both interact. These workshops were combined i.e. were never split into separate sexes, so all the women were trained in their female sexual energy and power, but also sat in on all the workshops where the men learnt about their sexual energy and power, so that everyone had a full understanding of both male and female energy. This equipped everyone with a full understanding of both sexes, and then prepared the way for the follow on workshops that taught about how the sexes interact and attract each other.
Some of these workshops were attended by Rosie, who eventually became my partner. Together we went on a journey of exploring and developing Goddess training more deeply, as part of a general life training process. I would act as a leader, mentor, and guide for Rosie, and she would act as a guide and channel for me. Rosie was (and is) a therapist, and for some years had been drawn to sexual healing work. In 2019 she took, with the full support of myself, the somewhat bold step of adding online sexual performance and sexual therapy to the services she offers. This service is carried out on some of the mainstream sex workers platforms. The experience gained from this gave us both deep insights into sexual behaviour, and empowered Rosie and her sexual energy greatly.
The journey of running workshops, and my work with Rosie, cemented my view that knowledge of how to empower men and women, and their sexual energy, was crucial knowledge for everyone, and so I formalised this into a specific form of training, leading to my becoming a Goddess and Masculinity trainer.